thought traps

76 | Thought traps: Tricky Shoulds


Are you ‘shoulding’ on yourself?  (Don’t lie!  We all do it)  And it’s easy for those tricky ‘shoulds’ and ‘shouldn’ts” to start defining your emotions and behaviors.  I should get up earlier.  I should work out.  I should get more sleep.  I shouldn’t complain so much.  I shouldn’t be upset. And what about what others should or shouldn’t do or be?  Find out why this is distorted thinking and how it undermines who you are called to be and what you are called to do.  Let us know how the ‘shoulds’ are showing up for you!

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Are you ‘shoulding’ on yourself?  (Don’t lie!  We all do it)  And it’s easy for those tricky ‘shoulds’ and ‘shouldn’ts” to start defining your emotions and behaviors.  I should get up earlier.  I should work out.  I should get more sleep.  I shouldn’t complain so much.  I shouldn’t be upset. And what about what others should or shouldn’t do or be?  Find out why this is distorted thinking and how it undermines who you are called to be and what you are called to do.  Let us know how the ‘shoulds’ are showing up for you!

Want to become more Empowered?

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karen and curtis herbert as a midlife coaches

We are Karen and Curtis Herbert, founders of The Empowered Catholic Podcast. Empowerment is a word we use for getting the whole person in alignment with the Spirit. How could that change your life?

Start the journey

Learn more about working with us here:

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